I often look in the mirror and pick at all the little things that drive me crazy about myself. Wrinkles under my eyes. The way my eyelids droop and I want them to be more taunt. My love handles. My stretch marks. My pooch from having four boys. But I have to catch myself. I have to remind myself that I am where many people would want to be. We are all a work in progress. You have to learn to love yourself where you are at. Love yourself through the entire journey. It has been a long road, I have had lots of ups and downs emotionally and physically. But I can truly say, even though I am not perfect, I am happy with the person I am now. Learn to love yourself. Imperfection and all! because there is someone out there that would love to have your cleavage, ( I know I would!) or your beautiful eyes, or your curvy figure. Be proud of what you have! Embrace it!